Anxious to Aligned: magnetize passionate
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secure love
A 3 month container to transform from emotional dependence to empowered independence and attract in your most aligned relationship.
Would you like to move from emotional dependence to empowered independence in your romantic relationships? To feel so grounded, so solid and so secure within yourself that you attract in the healthiest, deepest and most aligned romantic partnership that you’ve ever had. What if I told you that was possible? What if I told you that you could fall so madly in love with yourself and in that process, permeate that love into every other facet of your life. To be your greatest love so you can attract in your greatest love. Without self abandonment. Without losing yourself in the process.
If you're a woman who is...
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tired of attracting in the same emotionally unavailable partner.
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You’ve felt a void in your heart that will only be complete when you find “the one.”
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You’ve seen all of the movies that have inundated you into thinking that the “push” “pull” dynamic is romantic… but now you’ve realized something isn’t right. I deserve more.
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You have the uncanny gift of becoming a chameleon in every relationship you enter, losing yourself along the way.
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You want to take your power back.
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You want to fall so madly in love with yourself that it doesn’t even matter if you have a partner.
If you resonate with any of the traits above or identify as somebody who is anxiously attached… and want to shift into a place of safety and security in partnership, this container is for you.
I Spent so much of my life in this space...
and I have been able to guide myself to a place where I’m in the healthiest relationship of my life but I first needed to discover the real love of my life… ME. I went through the dating gauntlet and I got so fed up with the men that I was attracting in... something had to change. I had to face myself head on. I was the common denominator and in that process, I discovered that I did not fully love myself. I didn’t know how. I didn’t have the capacity. I didn’t possess the tools to self nurture. To self regulate. I was looking externally for validation. For love. And that’s what got reflected back to me. My own capacity to hold love. It wasn’t enough and I deserved more. I took a long pause from dating to open up that space. To love myself. To heal myself. To learn the tools to self regulate. To feel SAFE. And when I did… the love of my life came in. I wasn’t searching for it. It just came in when I could finally deepen that capacity for love.
I want to guide you through this deeply ceremonial process.
No more emotionally unavailable men. No more self soothing with external sources. No more feeling needy or clingy when it comes to relationships. No more self abandonment. Let’s go on a journey to find so much love and safety within yourself so that love and safety will permeate into all of your relationships moving forward.
Here are some other examples of how going through this process and healing my own anxious attachment has changed my life.
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I called in the love of my life and the healthiest relationship to date that I’ve ever had.
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I healed my relationships with my close friendships where there is mutual respect, open communication and healthy boundaries.
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I no longer emotionally spiral when somebody doesn’t get back to me in a timely manner.
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I now view conflict as an opportunity to deepen instead of a form of rejection.
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I left a career in acting that was no longer serving me and created a successful business from a place of empowerment. No longer needing the external validation of others to move forward.
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I set healthy boundaries with my family members and now have a drama free life.
3 Months.
3 Transformational Steps.
This will be a 3 month container for a group of women who are ready to enter safe, secure and solid relationships. With themselves, their future partners as well as other important relationships in their life.
Devotional Excavation
During this process, you will be fully devoted to yourself. You will discover the abandonment wounds and trauma that lead you to a place of feeling anxious and unsafe in relationships in the first place. Where have you felt deprived of love and how can you give that love back to yourself?
Expanding Your Capacity
We will then use breathwork as well as other powerful somatic tools to embody the safety and trust that comes with being fully grounded in yourself, with or without a partner. Expanding your capacity within your nervous system to hold a higher level of love.
Embodied Integration
You will then slowly re-enter the world of dating and integrate these tools as an empowered woman who no longer needs a relationship anymore. You simply want one. And you're clear on those wants. You’ll be so incredibly solid within yourself and feel so in love with your life… a partner is just a bonus.
We Start December 4th
This container is for you if:
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you identify as a woman with an anxious attachment style.
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You’re ready to do deep and intimate work.
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Have difficulty setting boundaries.
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Have been told that you’re needy or clingy in relationships.
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You’re prepared to take a temporary break from dating to become super solid within yourself.
This container is NOT for you if:
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Your only goal is to attract in a partner. (This is a great side effect but this is about you, not them)
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You’re not ready to let go of your old paradigm of dating.
If you are feeling the call to heal your anxious attachment style and call in passionate and secure love, let’s hop on a no pressure phone call to see if this is the right program for you. On the call, we will get a clearer picture of where you’re at on your journey with dating and what your goals are when it comes to partnership, inner healing and empowering yourself. I’m so looking forward to connecting!